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Not that kind of girl

Today I want to talk about something that has been bugging me for a while. The term “basic b*tch” and the sentence “but everyone likes that”. Now sit down for a second and hear me out.

I will admit it. I wear Adidas, UGGS and converse. I like scarfs, mid rings and Starbucks. I wear make-up, curl my hair and go to Topshop, Zara and Primark. And you know what that makes me? Effing nothing.

Okay I wear superstars, dye the ends of my hair blonde and drink cocktails rather than beer. I like to wear mascara and contour my face. You can see those things you can notice them. What you don’t know who or how I am. Fair enough I listen to one direction, Taylor swift, Ed Sheeran and 5sos. I like the things I like because I like them and I can’t help that a couple million other people happen to like that as well. But what you might not know is the following:

I am obsessed with movies, from horror and action movies till chick flicks and war movies. I enjoy them all. I love classical music, I can read a book a day and totally lose myself in the story. I know songs that where made years ago. I always try to learn new things. I love walking around and looking at beautiful buildings and nature. I can just sit on a bench forever and just look at water or a tree. I enjoy it to look at the way light flickers. I adore shopping and coffee and I like eating cheese scones without putting anything on it. I like fashion and scarfs and hats. It makes me happy to go out and run. I love using different body products. Make-up makes me so incredibly happy, trying new things and changing your face, removing makeup is also fascinating. I love laughing, crying and reading magazines. What I am trying to say is that you shouldn’t judge people so quickly.

You should let people be them and you should be you. You should try to get to know someone find out what they love, what sets their soul on fire and judge them when you know them. Because you know what? Doing that doesn’t only make you a decent person it also makes you notice that you can be friend with people that are your complete opposites you will find out that you can learn a lot from having different types of friends.

So next time when you see a girl drinking a Starbucks Frappuccino or a low fat soy latte or whatever else. Before you judge remember; she might not be that kind of girl.
Oh and guess what? Same goes for boys obviously.

Lots of love, 

Melissa

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